Choked Up & Jewish 101
September 22nd, 2007It is the Day of Atonement! Behold! I am Your God! Repent Your Sins!
Nahh…… too, ….too …..Biblical.
Let's start over.
Oh Lawdy! I AM a Sinner. Let me reeeeepent and change my wicked ways!
Um….no. I love Gospel, but Southern Baptist Evangelicals don't usually observe Yom Kippur.
So, I'm sitting in Temple today. It's Yom Kippur, the most solemn, most introspective days in Judaism. I'm sitting on the bima
(the stage, or platform or pulpit where the lectern is and the Torah is
read from). There about 8 chairs up there, and I'm waiting for my part
in the service- I've been given the honor of carrying the Torah through the
aisles of the sanctuary after it is read and then returning it to the Ark
(the enclosed cabinet on the bima where the Torahs are kept when not in
use). I'm probably up there, sitting in one of the chairs for half an
hour or so.
The rabbi, Gary Loeb, whom I love dearly, and is one of the most
brilliant and naturally empathetic people I've ever met, has chosen
today to do an unusual thing- that is to “share” aliyot. (An aliyah, singular for the plural aliyot, is a blessing said before and after a Torah reading, which is split into 7 portions on Shabbat mornings, so hence there are 7 aliyot
each Saturday. The rabbi has shared these aliyot sort of like
“shout-outs” to kindred spirits to the each person doing each aliyah.
For our immediate-past temple president, Bonna, the rabbi asked all
former members of our temple board to rise and receive his blessing
after the aliyah.
For our friend Glorya, who is in her 70s (I think) the rabbi asked all grandparents to rise.
For another, the rabbi asked all the members of our temple's Bikor Cholim
committee to stand. Bikor Cholim translates literally to “visiting the
sick” but in my temple, the meaning has come to mean helping anyone who
needs it. From a ride to do some shopping for an elderly shut-in, to
well….read on.
When my son was hospitalized for his leg operation last winter, on 3 separate nights where someone from Bikor Cholim came to my
house and brought a full dinner for us to eat. They weren't huge
feasts, but they were all good, and they were all whole- and wholesome-
meals that my wife and daughter and I could sit down to and not think
about cooking or the stress of a family member lying in a hospital
bed. They were a welcome respite during a very dark time. We had
messages left on our answering machine volunteering rides for our
daughter, for whatever we needed. Basically, we were on notice, that there were
people there to help us.
But they were so much more than that. These simple acts of kindness
from people whom I knew, but not knew well, were so touching and meant
so much to me and my wife that words cannot express how much they were
appreciated.
So when the rabbi asked the Bikor Cholim committee to please rise, and
I saw these 20 or so beautiful individuals spread amongst the
congregation get to their feet, my eyes welled up, my throat got thick,
and I had to reach into my jacket pocket for my handkerchief.
I knew, even as I ate those warm meals back on one of those cold nights
in March, that I would some day have to repay these kindnesses. And today, on
this Holy Day, when one not only looks to God to ask forgiveness; when
one looks to others from whom they need forgiveness, or to forgive; one
also takes stock of oneself, and looks within and without to try to be
a better human being in the coming year.
And while Zac still has another leg to be fixed, and probably won't be
done healing until June next year, I know that next week, I will be
giving our temple office a call to find out who needs some help.
